FUN Conversation Application

On a 1-5 scale - where would you put the health or strength of your married relationship?

Awful - lots of tension, anger and disrespect in our thoughts and actions.

Some good days, but plenty of tough days

We're pretty good - pleasant with each other much of the time

We click, work well together and enjoy each other

We live into the love we have for each other with mutual honor and care.

On a 1-5 scale, how is your parenting impacting your kiddos?

Miserable for all of us. We are confused. The kids don't cooperate.

Crabbiness and tension are common but we do have some smiles.

Part of the day is good, usually - other parts are headache-builders

We are figuring things and can move back into cooperation without tears.

Mostly good days - as a couple and a family. Honesty and love are here.

What "fixes" have you tried but did not succeed at?

Just let my spouse manage the kids.

Just do the kids my self and hope my spouse stays out of it.

Try to share/split duties

Use advice from friends, in-laws, your mom, doctor, blogger

Have a scheduled date night

Re-do bedtime, wake-up, or other routines

Bribery for good behaviors

Punishments - time outs, take away things, alone-time, loud voices

Being nice and doing whatever the kiddo or spouse wants

Being positive and patient

Other

These idea(s) didn't work because...

No cooperation from my spouse

It seems to hard too keep up - so I give up.

I am not sure it's worth the effort because the change is so short lived.

No cooperation from my kids.

Other

What is the biggest challenge to improving your marriage and family life?

Not knowing what to do

Knowing what to do but not knowing how to do it.

Not being on the same page as spouse so we sabotage the efforts.

Too tired.

Too depressed or anxious

Too much fighting/arguing between spouse and myself.

Not being able to get the kids to cooperate with "the plan."

To time for us to think, talk and come to agreement.

Too much alcohol or other distractions (phones, gaming, drugs, social)

Extremely naughty kids

Other

How does your financial situation play into getting your marriage and kids into a better space?

No role (ie - cost is not the issue).

I'd pay for professional help but my spouse would not be supportive

We could figure it out.

Finally, How motivated are you to improve both your marriage and family life at the same time?

Pretty low on hope and energy

Sort of intrigued but not sure how much time I will put into it

On the fence - hopeful and interested but not confident we can change

Yes! I am pretty certain this is the time and way to get our family growing

We are ready! Let's do this for us and for our kids!

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